Psychotherapy and Mental Health Counseling in New York | Asian & Asian American Therapists in New York

Ella Xiaoxu Hong, LMHC

Psychotherapist

We accept most major commercial insurance plans, including Aetna, Wellfleet, Cigna, United Healthcare, Oxford, Oscar Health, Empire Blue Cross Blue Shield, and Carelon Behavioral Health, for residents of New York.

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My work concentrates on helping you regain agency and develop your selfhood.

It is hard to know what you want when you have spent much of your life making others proud. Many of my clients come to therapy with a persistent sense that they are not enough; for some, this began with a critical parent or caregiver. The only thing we can do right now, as the past is set, is to begin to understand how those early relationships still shape the way we see ourselves and do things.

I often work with young adults and their parents alike, who are beginning to ask a deceptively simple question: “What do I actually want?” or “How can I help my unmotivated child?”

My approach is grounded in attachment and psychodynamic / parts work. I have worked with teens struggling with self-harm and suicidal thoughts. This experience has given me a solid foundation in helping clients stay safe and learn practical skills to manage difficult emotions, such as those taught in dialectical behavior therapy (DBT). I adapt my approach to what works best for each client.

I like to keep my therapeutic space warm and creative. Over time, I hope to see my clients say goodbye to me with a smile and the firm belief that they know what seed they want to grow within themselves and feel confident about it.

There are no perfect parents or perfect selves to be found. If my words resonate with you, I encourage you to reach out to schedule a first session or consultation.

Expertise

Trauma & C-PTSD
Anxiety
Depression
Relationship Issues
Self-Esteem & Identity
Self-Harm
Substance Use
Eating Disorder
Emotional Disturbance
Family Conflict
Parenting
Cultural & Immigration Issues
Personality Disorders
ADHD
Bipolar Disorder
Schizophrenia
Anger Management
Life Transitions
Personal Growth
Women’s Issues
LGBTQ+
Career Counseling
Peer Relationships
Family Therapy
Child Therapy
Adolescent Therapy
Elder Therapy

Top Specialties

Trauma & C-PTSD

Self-Esteem & Self-Image

Anxiety

Relationship Issues

Depression

Specialty Approaches

Psychodynamic Therapy

Trauma-Informed Therapy

Dialectical Behavior Therapy (Structured DBT)

Motivational Interviewing (MI)

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

Internal Family Systems (IFS)

Art Therapy

Music Therapy

Play Therapy

Attachment-Based Therapy

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)

Solution-Focused Therapy

Person-Centered Therapy

I Work With

Individuals

Couples

Families

Education

New York University, Master's in Counseling for Mental Health and Wellness

Licensure

LMHC, State of New York 018177

About Ella

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